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HACK: Is Bad Sexual Chemistry a Deal-Breaker?

Is bad sexual chemistry a deal-breaker in a relationship?

I think definitely yes. If you can’t… I don’t know, if that’s sort of missing, then what makes it different from a friendship? I guess if there’s bad sexual chemistry, I think that you can usually address it, and if it can’t be addressed, then the problem isn’t really something that should compromise the whole relationship anyway.

Not a deal-breaker, but it’s definitely an important factor. I feel like if you have crappy sex, then that’s going to affect your relationship. Like, I really think it does. If you’re going to be locked together long-term, at some point you’re going to need to stray, depending on your sexual urges. If you need sex and you need that in your life, then I think you’re going to stray.

I’m with Tom and Nadia, who are exes now. Guys, is bad sexual chemistry a deal-breaker in a relationship?

I wouldn’t answer, but I’d say bad chemistry is a deal-breaker. I sound like good chemistry’s a deal-breaker. Hello! You have good chemistry. Chemistry is something that makes up a dealmaker.

Exactly, yeah. Like, if you have good sex with chemistry, somewhere it makes like rice chips so much different.

But what if it’s not good?

It’s going to affect a lot. Like, it’s going to affect a lot of stuff in the relationship.

Definitely.

Can you work through it though?

In a relationship, it’s worth working through.

Yeah, but I guess you guys have good chemistry.

I’d say yeah.

Tell me about the situation. Furniture ejaculation?

Yeah, I don’t know. I wasn’t… So, you dated a guy that prematurely ejaculated all the time? Every time?

How quick?

Nine seconds.

And subconsciously, I don’t know if I realized that was what it was, but… Texas? I don’t know. It’s just… it is a part of a relationship. I think.

You bought toys off, will you?

In love with that car.

Yeah, yeah.

What was that, the main reason you broke up with him?

It was a fact. I think in hindsight, definitely. But at the time, something was missing. And reflecting back, I think that was the part of it. It’s just, you can’t… I think…

Yeah, you can’t continue to be with someone if you can’t have sex.

Absolutely no traction. The girl can’t work for too long.

Are you just lying to yourself, really?

I reckon.

But what if you really love this girl and you are attracted to her in lots of other ways, but the actual sexual intercourse is not that good?

I don’t know. I just reckon it’s a big part of a relationship. They seem pretty shallow of me, but a lot of people would agree.

Absolutely not.

Work through it? Like, bad sexual chemistry ever?

Yeah, I have.

Yeah, I mean, you made them… Is it on or is it off?

Yeah, but there’s so many levels to a relationship, and sex is just one of them.

How you talk, direct…

Because I’ve never been in a situation where you’ve had bad sexual chemistry somewhere. Terrible?

What did you do?

Ran away.

Licked them off fast.

Really bossy?

Really.