Don't be that person - being the bullying

16th October, 2017    |    By  Reach Out    |     1.8k

Sometimes, the line between teasing and bullying can seem a little hazy and things can go too far. One young person reflects on the bullying situation she really regrets.


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Don’t be that person – being the bully

There was this girl in our group that me and another girl used to pick on. We didn’t consider it bullying at the time—we actually liked her. We just liked having someone to tease. It got pretty bad, ending with me posting something terrible online. Then the police got involved. We stopped being friends, understandably.

But a few years later, we were at the same party, and I apologised. I told her how much that incident had scared me—not just because I got into trouble, but because it made me see how easy it is to become that kind of person.

Turns out bullying isn’t just a tough kid stealing your lunch money. Bullying can be done by someone like me. She forgave me, which was cool, but it’s still the biggest regret I have in my life. If only I’d thought more about how she might be feeling.

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